Phoebe Wang Phoebe Wang

The Wife Role: A Social Illusion

The Wife Role: A Social Illusion

1. The Brainwashing

Society has conditioned women to believe the highest achievement is to become a wife. We are taught that our value lies in service — cooking, cleaning, caretaking, and keeping a man satisfied — rather than in our sovereignty.

2. The Phantom

The role of 'wife' is a phantom. Women chase it their whole lives, believing it will secure love, respect, and belonging. In reality, it often delivers the opposite: invisibility, servitude, and dependence.

3. The Prison

Once a woman signs herself into the wife contract, she often becomes a prisoner: - Her desires are silenced.
- Her identity dissolves.
- Her sovereignty is traded for a title.

She becomes a second-class citizen in her own life — respected for her labor, but not for her being.

4. The Truth

Love cannot be secured through contracts. True love must come with honor, devotion, and freedom — never through social cages. A woman’s worth is not defined by being a wife. It is defined by her sovereignty, her radiance, and her God-given light.

5. The Awakening

The future of women is not to be chained by roles, but to stand in their sovereignty: - To live as creators, not as servants.
- To love freely, without losing themselves.
- To claim their divine right to be whole, radiant, and untouchable.

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